Last week rock singer Melissa Etheridge filed legal documents to formally end her nine year relationship with actress Tammy Lynn Michaels. However for some odd reason Michaels didn’t get the memo and recently took to her blog to express her feelings of shock and betrayal by the filing.

“Gentle waves / no noise for awhile / or maybe gentle voices and / SMACK!!!!!!!!!!!! / FILE FOR DIVORCE!!!!!! / even though we both promised / agreed / handshook / pinkyswore / no filing until after the tour / in the fall.

“Her broken promises / told to me by/headlines / i’m raising the kids / doing what i can / second set of yours. Could you stop blind sighting [sic] me. Unless it’s another art form you’re working on / have a good concert.”

We feel for you Tammy… you could at least let a person know they’re no longer in a legal relationship!