Comments on: Mashonda (Swizz Beatz’s Future Ex Wife) Confronts Alicia Keys on Twitter

By: Maximo Naso

Maximo Naso — Sat, 29 Oct 2011 13:32:57 +0000

Seems like a good idea, but she begins by talking about proposals and then switches her terminology to “report” for the remainder of the clip. Proposals and reports are, of course, very different writing genres and so this may end up confusing people.

By: Jose Hafter

Jose Hafter — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 23:41:03 +0000

Fully understand you, I made my blog but isn’t so good as yours

By: UmNotimportant

UmNotimportant — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 10:48:18 +0000

First off she said she blamed niether of em.if a chick come into yo face n shake hands wit u …dats point blank disrespect no regards to you or your child,but swizz is more to blame cause he might end up doin alicia the same way< I WILL DIE LAUGHIN IF HE DO…alicia was my fave everything like i couldnt believe she was fowl like dat…swizz ugly asx pf showtime cancled when shonda take half which she need to do…they say men think wit they dick…i wonder what alicia was thinkin bout

By: Alena

Alena — Wed, 31 Aug 2011 03:58:16 +0000

I can tell you as a Christian minister that what Alicia Keys did is not God’s will. God calls it adultery, and she’s broken one of the ten commandments and doesn’t care. They were not made to be broken. But unfortunately, what goes around comes around. It sounds like you had a nice little family but I guess your husband couldn’t walk away from that offer. It’s too bad but it says you deserve someone much better. He is weak. If it weren’t her, it could have been someone else. You will be better off without him because he doesn’t understand the sacredness of marriage and that it’s a lifetime committment and a covenant with God. He didn’t take that seriously. You deserve someone much better. Alica Keys has also taken it lightly and she has not cared what God thinks about her behavior or your marriage. I pity her. But someone will leave her when she’s happiest. It’s a spiritual law and it’s always in operation. You are a truly quality person to not loose your cool but try to work throught this in a civilized way. I say your ex has lost a great woman and found an adulterer and a person who has no fear of God. So you’re the one who made out in the deal. Now you can live a life with someone that will not betray you and that can be trusted. Trust God for it. He’ll see that it comes for you. You deserve very much and I know it will happen for you. May God bless you in grand proportions!!!

By: Lotta

Lotta — Sat, 02 Jul 2011 00:37:23 +0000

Love! A lot of people on here are looking at this from one angle. And let me not forget to mention that we don’t dictate what comes back on someone thats why it’s called a personal relationship with God. We love to tell someone, o he did me wrong, he cheated she did this or that… And the same thing will come back on them… So we hope?!? Right!!! Lol!! What I’m getting at is it all about the situation. I don’t blame either female both are right! Fight for what you believe in. And if you’re at peace with your decision then be at peace. I respect both women.

By: DivaVanette

DivaVanette — Thu, 30 Jun 2011 03:23:56 +0000

It is sad to say the lease when someone comes on tv and acts as if she is so much for mankind and womankind and yet is so deceiving. All the little speeches and so forth. WOW. Well I am not surprised and yes a person can interfer with someone relationship until they destroy it. Don’t think for that it cannot happen. I don’t think it has that much to do with looks because his ex is beautiful.If anything all it probably was to try and help his career (never heard of him, his ex yes, him no) But what Alicia and SB must remember is what goes around come around and since Alicia is so deep maybe she will be remember these paraphased words from the word. BE NOT DECIEVED WHATSOEVER A MAN SOWTH, SO SHALL HE REAP!!! THE BE NOT DECEIVED MEANS TRUST HIM HE WILL COME TO PASS.

By: erica

erica — Tue, 17 May 2011 05:00:54 +0000

I understand were u are coming from mashonda u deserve an apology from her she is a back stabbing home recker and i was never in to her music. Mashonda u don’t need him and what he did to u he will do to her because he is a man!!! @kA (a dog)…

By: Jrock

Jrock — Thu, 05 May 2011 02:31:09 +0000

They say love is blind… well so is AK cuz Swiss is mad goofy.. no lie talented though. i wish the best to his exwife… Keep ya head up and lead by example

I care very little for any artist’s personal life. They are not what they seem in their videos… it’s a business people… they are as confused, and insecure and dramatic as any other person.
AK i don’t blame you for doing you.. but shame on you for pretending to be her friend then stabbing her in the back and having no backbone to face the music… that’s some bitch ass shit. I hope karma doesn’t serve you a cold one… remix!!!!!!!!!

That kind of shit says alot about the kind of person you really are…. Mad Grimmy lady. you gets no props!

By: maria

maria — Wed, 04 May 2011 01:16:36 +0000

Alicia keys is one of my best artists, i liked her personality , i never knew she will do such a thing, i think she ddnt think twice for her decision, if she did let me just say she is very evil infact she even knew that swizz is a married man…. mmhhm this is soo owful, i feel sory to mashonda and her son, God may be with them.

By: Fatana

Fatana — Sat, 23 Apr 2011 07:51:27 +0000

@Africka Kenyatta: hay this has nothing to do with the color of someone's skin! fantasia got smeared because the man had no respect for her. The man she was cheating with did not trully want her. Alicia Keys got that man to marry her! he had lots of respect for her! thats the difference

By: Fatana

Fatana — Sat, 23 Apr 2011 07:45:05 +0000

I will still love Alicia Keys music because she’s a great artist. I don’t expect anything more from a great artist but great music. Alicia Keys is human. All i can say is that i feel for you Mashonda. But God always take something out your life so he can give you something better. A man that can cheat then leave you, is not a man meant for you at all. Now you have a beautiful son and a whole lot of money. God is trully good. Enjoy while your still young!

By: mimi

mimi — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 04:09:09 +0000

im a big fan of AK but wat she did is totally wrong i did not expected from her i mean she’s beautiful and a role modal she made me lose all the respect i had for her…and for shonda you should not be blaming AK only blame your husband also he has a hand in it..shonda you are beautiful you’ll find another man even a better one just forgive AK and SB and like you said leave it all to almighty God…Ak im still your fan i love your music but i thought you would have dignity>>>

By: Bella

Bella — Tue, 19 Apr 2011 23:15:37 +0000

Got a few words for you Alicia and you sang them yourself “what goes up must come down!”

End of discussion haha! Don’t worry mashonda, every one will reap what they sow! Maybe not right now, tomorrow or this week.. But someday someday :-)!

By: Im just sayin

Im just sayin — Sun, 17 Apr 2011 16:28:38 +0000

Whats funny is that,the majority of you guys are talking about Mashonda being the bigger person… HOW IS PUBLICALLY POSTING THIS THE ACT OF BEING THE BIGGER PERSON? Then she goes on about how its just for AK And such and such… -_- Really…. What she wanted was for everyone to do what it is,youre doing now…. Bashing AK…. Im not nor have I ever been the 4 walls in their home but come on something was happening…. Who knows how Mashonda said to AK and how she said i when she clames,of reaching out to her…..

By: Mazz

Mazz — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 04:37:00 +0000

I feel sorry for this woman Mashonda.
Alicia Keys and Swiss Beats I am so ashamed of the two of you. Especially Alicia Keys.
To me Alicia Keys was classy and represented what a woman should be today, strong, successful.
I have changed my view on Alicia. I think she’s a man stealing, break up a happy home bitch, and i know what many people would say on here, “leave em alone”….let me tell you people, step into the shoes of Mashonda’s and see how it feels. Do you want heartbreak, kids without a father. B damned if u do.
Alicia Keys what sort of role model are you to young women?, sleep with a married man its all good..that’s the message your sending out..break up a happy home(family…and go and have a flashy wedding, like that’s gonna fix the problem.
Alicia Keys you disappoint me, you should be disappointed in yourself..How could you. Why not go out and get a single man, and why act like your a strong(super woman) when u were so weak as to not be upfront with Mashonda.
You lied..shame on you.

By: Ayah Dawood

Ayah Dawood — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 09:54:15 +0000

It is hard to judge a situation sitting from here, and honestly who are we to judge? However I will say, from this tweet Mashonda sounds so classy and mature. I am amazed at her restraint. I wanna be her friend.

By: Shetandra Jones

Shetandra Jones — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 23:38:46 +0000

I like Alicia Keys but I am very disappointed that she will do that. I see her in a new eyesight now. I am married so I understand how Mashonda feel. Five years is a long time. I hate to see people just throw a long marriage away.

By: Mumahs

Mumahs — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 15:06:17 +0000

Ak an sb are grown I dont think their business is for anyone else to put on blast. If it they would have told Mashonda what was going on it would have got ugly. We are in 2011 an things happen people move on an once they leave you cant decide who is ok for them to be with. An hating after the fact they left you is not looking good for any womn who has been cheated on. So on that note he cheatedc get over it he has moved on putting the business on blast is embarrassing all three involved mainly Mashonda cuz she is left with nothing an still tweeting . There is nothing to say its over. Stop tripping it happens.

By: BrandonKanee#1Fan

BrandonKanee#1Fan — Sat, 25 Dec 2010 18:50:37 +0000

@AK IS STANK: I COULDNT AGREE MORE . . .!

By: Princess B. K.

Princess B. K. — Sat, 18 Dec 2010 20:36:27 +0000

U just told them the real deal. They should go do something else with their boring lives and stop blaming AK. The man wanted to live or else he would have gone back to his wief. Period!!!!!!!!!

By: Nico

Nico — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 21:27:21 +0000

I hate to say it, but if he did it once, he will definitely do it again. So watch out Alicia.

By: Lucas

Lucas — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 13:29:16 +0000

ESSA musica e boa: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aP_amj10eVw&feature=related

David maio – I’ll Be Watching You

By: Janet pleasant

Janet pleasant — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 01:31:45 +0000

only god can judge her.

By: Africka Kenyatta

Africka Kenyatta — Mon, 18 Oct 2010 00:49:06 +0000

Alicia Keys is a WHORE!!! and Fantasia is right she only got away with it because she is light skinned. She is filthy! Why is she getting well wishes and Fantasia’s name got smeared???? Both of them are dirt but it makes you wonder???

By: sable

sable — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 02:47:35 +0000

one does not stay in a relationship when he or she is not happy. love i sthe matter of the heart. it does not matter married or in a strong relationship if one feel it is not working quit becos u are hurting yourself. basically something was not working that is why he left. what is the big deal move on mama. think about your child here that is his father. you guys just need understanding on how to raised the child period. you are beautiful it is not the end of the road you got all the package any guy want. i know how u feel mama move on. u get a better guy out there for u. u do not need to put your sweat out here like tis u be good. god loves u

By: dedra

dedra — Sat, 16 Oct 2010 21:53:56 +0000

dang thats messed up!! Um tired of these guys cheating they know whats right and whats wrong! look at that BS. And these female doing thier dirt too! when will it end?

By: unque

unque — Sat, 16 Oct 2010 18:02:58 +0000

Nobody,was stolen. The man simply left, lost interest. You simply don’t stay in a marriage because of the kids. Now maybe he will be the best dad 4 his sons. Yeah he should have done it differently, divorced his wife first, before movin on. When he knew he had fallin 4 ms keys. good luck to swizz beatz and A. Keys. To Ms Mashonda God’s grace be with you I know you will be okay and a better woman and person for this trail in your life. It’s clear u loved him. My prayers are with all of you.

By: barbie

barbie — Sat, 16 Oct 2010 17:05:00 +0000

waw, AK is such a pretty woman to be so trashy. SHE”S NOT A LADY WITH CLASS!!! i wish her and SB the best of luck, ut i really thought that AK was smarter than that. the DOG traits that SB has will only take time before they appear again. and guess what, now AK ill have to endure the same pain that she cause to Mashonda.

By: keysha

keysha — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 02:07:55 +0000

I WAS A HUGE FAN OF ALICIA KEYS…..AND SWIZZ BEATZ…BUT NOW..NOT DIGGIN EM AT ALL….MASHONDA…IM A MARRIED WOMAN AND I FEEL WHERE YOUR COMIN FROM! BUT I AM A FIRM BELIEVER..WHAT YOU DO COMEZ BACK 7 FOLDS…DONT WORRY SHONDA..SWIZZ AND ALICIA KEYS WILL FEEL DA 7 FOLDZ….AND AUTOMATICALLY THINK OF YOU MOMMA…KEEP YOUR HEAD UP…SAY NO MORE ABOUT DIS SITUATION..PUT IT TO BED..AND IN GODS HANDS!

By: devils advocate

devils advocate — Sat, 09 Oct 2010 16:12:11 +0000

I hope all of you saying that you arent ever going to buy anything of AK also commits to not purchasing anything that Swizz Beatz touches either. She may have been the other woman, but she sure as hell didnt twist his arm, it was both of them, not just her.

By: Ms. Kelly

Ms. Kelly — Sat, 02 Oct 2010 16:08:19 +0000

I was a very sensitive with the fact, that the woman cause many problems with your marriage and am very upset at the fact that people think that they can come into ur life and do what the hell they wanna do. but guess what GOD is still in control and i promise she will get hers TRUST IN GOD LET GO AND LET GOD LOVE YOU stay sweet

By: jungleeyez

jungleeyez — Sun, 19 Sep 2010 19:25:58 +0000

@miss d: man i liked ha music n ha talents but afta readin this i really dont hav respect fa alicia. Everybody always says the otha woman does not owe respect to the woman in the realtionship but THEY DO, as a woman you owe that owe woman. Us woman need to stick togetha and understand and respect eachotha.

By: Beverly T

Beverly T — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 12:18:42 +0000

It’s over now and they just need to take the example of Jada and Will Smith. Treat each other now with dignity and respect. If I was Shonda, I would not have put my business out there. No matter what, You never let them see you sweat. Now everyone needs to act like an adult. I have been hurt in thesame way and sometimes it is nothing you can do about it but move on.

By: Sheila 7

Sheila 7 — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 17:38:51 +0000

AK was wrong because she knew SB was married when she started messing with him, period. Ofcourse SB was wrong, but I honestly do not see where Mashonda would be wrong. She didnt cheat, she was cheated on. She is obviously trying to get over the situation the best way she can but to see “get over it and move on” especially those that have been through cheatings, is very insensitive. You say that you were cheated on and you moved on right, well how long did it take you to move on? And actually the answer really does not matter because everyone is different, everyone deals with situations differently and everyone has their own healing time and process.

There is no going around the situation, and to say “SB was going to leave her anyway” is ridiculous. If SB was not happy and going to leave her then so be it but the whole point of their situation is the fact that he and AK did not wait until the divorce was announced or even final before they started their own relationship. The point is that they were still married and if AK and SB were so in love they could have waited until the divorce was final. I believe how AK and SB handled this situation was very teenage like.

Now that the situation happened i wish nothing but blessings for AK, SB and Mashonda. Its our job to forgive and Gods job to take revenge.

By: lisa

lisa — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 21:43:39 +0000

i think this was totally nasty.after all the songs representing women and what they grow through.Alicia songs are not realistic but she sings what people wanna hear.for the guy u a nasty prik!PREPARE TO B A SINGLE MOM MY DEAR.

By: Ayna

Ayna — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 06:12:25 +0000

First of all
Mashonda didn’t particularly blame anyone for breaking the marriage, she only blamed Alicia for contributing in it and being disrespectful about it. Mashonda had to deal with a broken family, and most of all the broken bond and trust that her and SB were building during their relationship of many years, while Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz were parading around and becoming official to everyone. Mashonda and her children have every reason to feel abandoned and disrespected, and AK and SB sharing the “amazing news” with everyone just doesn’t seem fair to people who have suffered to give them their selfish happiness.
I think it’s good what Mashonda did, so people will know the other side of the story. Because now poeple only acknowledge the glamorized story of AK and SB marrying, having a child and being oh so happy together, while Mashonda and the kids are being put aside just because theyre not as famous and adored as the other 2 are.
It’s true, theyre all just people, so selfish and full of flaws. And maybe theyll never know guilt and responsibility because noones there to chastise them, only fans who will always idolize them.
Also stop saying Mashonda move on – it’s not easy, she’ll do it in her own time, she’s not hating on Alicia, she’s just trying to set the record straight and finally reach out to her. If you read teh whole thing, you’d know that she’s been trying to talk to her, while AK lied, hid, and ignroed her, and that’s when twitter was introduced – so that AK would finally respond. IMO, AK needs to acknowledge the Mashonda, instead of turning her lovely face to the cameras and pretending like these people whom she ruined don’t matter or don’t exist.
i respect that Mashonda remained sensible and straight-forward in this. I’d be very heart broken if that ever happened to me

By: F'd up

F'd up — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 04:17:17 +0000

Ok first off, Mashonda was too damn nice with the tweet. I was thinking the other day about how many celebrities just let their family break apart without doing anything about it. From Angelina HOE lie to Bombshell. This is going to keep on happening until you beat the **** out of the other chick or dude and let them know that they just cant take whats yours and men or women cant just cheat on you just for the heck of it. I would handle a B****es a** and It has nothing to do with the dude thats round 13, 1-12 is about principle and disrespect of me and mines. AK was wrong and so was swiss. And AK is to blame. In the eyesight of God swiss is to blame and so is AK. She destroyed their vows and she didn’t respect them. If she was a woman she wouldve told his *** to go back home. Marriage is a very serious thing. How can she expect someone to respect her marriage to swiss and for him to respect it if she never respected anyone elses? I just found out about their relationship today and am shocked. I mean this right here is ridiculous. And people just accept it. The media plays it up and its a shame. AK would be getting stoned right now right along with swiss in foreign countries. I think people aren’t mentioning Swiss in this because it comes as no surprise. However finding Alicia to be a part of it, really shocks me. I find her to be a hyporcrit for real. I don’t care if a marriage is upside down left side up, no one has the right to impose on it. If it was that bad he would’ve left before AK came along. So she is to blame just as much as he is. Mashonda, keep your head up girl….sometimes god has a way of getting the dirt out of our lives to make space for new and better things. Trust me, you will have the last laugh!

By: Keepin it Real

Keepin it Real — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:16:03 +0000

Karma is real…..She will get her’s way harder. She must have forgot how she got him…

By: Angel

Angel — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 01:46:38 +0000

I’m a fan of Alicia keys but I TOTALLY AGREE with Mashonda. I feel for Mashonda and I can’t tell she’s a strong woman and smart one.
It’s such a shame what Alicia did to this family and I hope that Mashonda will find the strength to survive this.
God bless.

By: sgtscoops

sgtscoops — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 21:39:27 +0000

Mashonda I commend you for leaving it in Gods hand. A seed they sow they gonna reap!
Continue to stay in the word of God.

By: sgtscoops

sgtscoops — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 21:37:01 +0000

The Bible says: A seed that is sowed you shall reap a harvest. Rather a marriage is broken or not it still does not give the right for either spouse to cheat. A marriage is the covenant of God. The man is the head. He’s his wife covering. Beatz pick up at your local bookstore: Understanding The Purpose Of Man!!! By author Myles Munroe… A seed that Beatz and Keys sowed yall 2 are gonna reap a bad harvest… People please read your bibles…. Hollywood dont take marriage serious.

By: Teasy

Teasy — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 03:00:52 +0000

Dang! Most of you sound real stupid. Alicia keyes is not the homewrecker. That’s Beatz. I agree with NIJOUR. Alicia had no commitment to Mashonda, so she owes her nothing. The reason all of you blame the woman and not the man is because you’ve probably had this happen to you and you took that fool back. It’s easier to blame the woman so you can justify why your taking back a liar and cheater. So grow up, leave Alicia alone she’s human. And you probably wasn’t buying her CD anyway. I’d be surprised with so much bootlegging going on. I still love her, her personal life has nothing to do with me or you.

By: MooMOO

MooMOO — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 23:00:16 +0000

Mashonda, I congratulate you for being the bigger person in a situation that ANY woman can find herself in. The saying ‘what goes around comes around’ gives me great comfort and I hope one day you find a man worthy of you. Quite frankly the whole sordid affair has put me right off AK; a marriage wrecker I never thought she would be. Love and best wishes for the future.x.

By: g77

g77 — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 11:35:44 +0000

Hello out there! Why can’t she be mad at both of them? Just because some cheats doesn’t mean the girlfriend or spouse in this case has a problem or is doing something wrong. Some people cheat because they are just terrible people, duh!

By: Sad Truth

Sad Truth — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 04:28:35 +0000

I love how Mashonda handled this!! She is truly an honorable woman for the intellectual, respectable message she sent to Alicia, and I honor and respect her for that!! The Lord will TRULY BLESS YOU UNCONDITIONALLY with TRUE LOVE and HAPPINESS that ONLY HE CAN GIVE!!! I pray for all the people involved in this issue, because these types of things are happening every day, and it really needs to stop! The Lord is not pleased with us, and that includes me and my sins!!! Alicia & Swizz are wrong, but condemning them will not change the fact that now, they really are married. We must ALL REPENT and turn from our evil ways!! The Lord is faithful and just to forgive us all, even Alicia & Swizz!!! Jesus Loves YOU!!! Lord, Help Us ALL!!! God bless!

By: PKELS

PKELS — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 13:41:18 +0000

Mashonda and Akeys should look for ways to get even with the situation they are currently undergoing. It is the moral truth that stealing someone else’s wife/husband is wrong. Currently they both are not even with the situation because the creator of this situation Swizz Beatz has been given a heroic character by both women. They both should leave him and give him his “his nobody” place and go on with their lives. Mashonda live on her life with her son and Akeys to look for another better hansome man than Skinny SB, because there are plenty of men out there who will be willing to marry a beautiful women who had already had a child. IF it happens that way, both Masonda and Akeys will be able to get even with the situation. Moral truth is from God and he is with every being who abides by his truth.

By: kanika

kanika — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 02:19:55 +0000

hold ur head up you and your son will be just fine and remember what does around comes back around so leave her to god he WILL handle this situation.

By: Tilly

Tilly — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 13:09:23 +0000

SB is a cheater, period! If it hadn’t been AK, it would have definitely been someone else. And why is everyone hating on Alicia, we don’t know what he told her…Men are liars and cheats, and if she’s in love with him, then he didn’t even need to convince her of his story. Love is blind and as much as ya’ll want to sit there and point fingers, we don’t have all the facts here. My boyfriend of 2 years made another woman pregnant, I found out when I went thru his text messages, just as I was recovering from that shock, I found out that this woman had been his “secret” for over 5 years, way before I came into his life even his family knew about her. So when he went over to the girl’s parents to report the pregnancy they asked that he marries her. They are engaged but he lives with me…she has moved in with his mom, he only goes over to visit but always comes home to me. I didn’t know about her, and that’s why i still continue living with him. Sometimes life deals u a low-blow…Now go on and jugde me…

By: IHATEYOUALL

IHATEYOUALL — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 04:11:23 +0000

First off let me start by saying I HATE YOU ALL, well most of you….What she does in her personal life is HER business and should not affect what you think of her music. Nobody can take ANYBODY from ANYBODY unless they WANT to leave!! But NO you NON rational, NON logical thinking human beings want to say she took him, and she is such a horrible person for it. SHUT UP you all sound stupid and look even more idiotic for sitting and marinating on this issue. Cause no matter how much you think or talk about it you’re not getting paid or anything and you’re still in the same position you were before. So how about you guys get off the computer and go DO something productive with your lives instead of go in on Alicia Keys and how immoral of a person you think she is. HEY maybe talk about REAL issues like why our country is in such a crap hole and ways we could fix it (but then again you all are stupid, so that maybe be too much for all of you cause im guessing if you put all of your brain power together it wouldn’t even equate to that of a chicken fetuses. And if it wasn’t her, it would have been somebody else.

And let me reiterate myself one last time NO ONE CAN TAKE A PERSON FROM ANOTHER PERSON IF THEY AREN’T WILLINGLY LEAVING! (he was going to leave her sooner or later).

Have a nice day all =]

By: belkys

belkys — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 04:48:07 +0000

all i want to know is if SB asked mashond for a divorce or did mashonda ask swizz beats for the divorce???…because if Swizz beats didn’t ask for a divorce then mashonda was suppose to stick it out and fight for her husband…thats just my opinion. but if my husband had an affair im not leaving him for anything…he aint going nowhere! but if he demands a divorce i will have no choice but to divorce him.