Mashonda (Swizz Beatz’s Future Ex Wife) Confronts Alicia Keys on Twitter

Monday, September 28th 2009 | Leave a Comment

Swizz Beatz, his wife Mashonda and their son Kazseem Jr. (back in 2007)

Looks like the issues surrounding this “love triangle” between Swizz Beatz, his soon-to-be ex wife (and mother of his child) Mashonda and his new woman, Alicia Keys, have reared their ugly head again! Though Beatz and Keys (that sounds funny together, haha!) have yet to publicly announce that they’re knocking boots, anybody who follows either of the two know what’s going down behind closed doors. They’re always at events together, send mushy messages to each other on Twitter and have even been spotted by the paparazzi enjoying an intimate evening.

Well now Mashonda’s fed up with the whole situation and has decided to put A. Keys on front street for allegedly assisting in the failure of her 5-year marriage. Here’s a message she sent to Alicia the other day on Twitter.

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

Swizz and Mashonda got married in 2004 and have a 2 year old son (born in Jan. 2007). They divorced in April 2009 but the legalities of the settlement haven’t been straightened out just yet, even though Swizz and Alicia have been getting very comfortable with each other recently.

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  • Lydia

    irespect alicia keys as an artist but after reading this make me think twice of whom she really is.

  • miss d

    I always liked AK and her music, but now, I’m looking at her in a different way, I would never purchase any of her music, some women, think because a man looks at them and tells them that their wife or girlfriend don’t understand is the oldest game in the book. what goes around comes back. If he cheated with you on his wife, he will definately do the same to you. Oh maybe you feel like you are different, so did the woman that stole my boyfriend, but guess what, he’s doing to her what he did to me. its all game, when will women wake up. A man can only do what we allow them to do. When you miss with another women’s husband, you have to deal with God.

  • sherry

    It does not impress me at all that she (AK) is an artist. She is a human. She breaths just like you and I. I have lost all respect for her. I know alot of people will probably say, they will no longer be a fan. I know I want. I am a married woman. It has nothing to do with being married. That’s what wrong with the world now. People are not wright. Bet just gave her The Humanitarian Award. What a Joke!

  • Faith

    I love Alicia Keys and her music, and I would normally say that a woman should be mad at the man and not the other woman….but the other woman is to blame when they know about you, and know that the man is married, and knows the wife, and knows about the child. I think that is sad. The Alicia Keys that is so expressive, positive, caring, and empowering in her songs and in her words would have no parts of this. I understand you can’t help who you fall in love with….but you can avoid being a home wrecker…even if the marriage was broken…there should have been more respect for the wife and child, and Alicia should have had more self respect. It’s not right to be with a married man…..hell I would have thought that even if AK was in love she would have waited until Beatz relationship was dissolved before carrying on in this foolishness. I wish the best to Mashonda and her son…may you both be blessed….and I hope everything works well for everyone….and I will still be an AK fan…because she has a lot of talent…I am not sure that some ot the songs will be as believable though…and that’s just on the real

  • bilel

    What is the exactly name of his cap ? i love this cap … i’m french and i’m sorry for my english .

  • http://www Nat

    I think that AK should have been woman enough to tell SB to get a divorce first.

  • A REAL LADY

    I am very dissappointed with Alicia Keys. I lost all respect for her, and I have stopped listening to her music. I did like the song “Best I ever had” by Swiss, however; I will not listen to that either.

    How dare Alicia to break up someone’s home. She does not deserve to be called a LADY. I can’t believe she has that much “low” self esteem, to do something like that.

    You would think Alicia could get a single man, as attractive as she is…however, she can’t…LOL

    God will deal with you both. I hope Shonda, sue the heck out of you both…If she was smart she WOULD…..What goes around comes around…

    Shonda old you head up, you are BEAUTIFUL!!!! God is in control!!!

    A REAL LADY, that can get a MAN….not someone else’s….

  • Nijour

    Let’s be real…and go back to Mashonda’s statement…Why aren’t you blaming “him”.
    Keys did not violate any vows to Mashonda..Her husband DID, if it is true. So, if you
    are not blaming the women then stop going around the backdoor and blaming her
    anyway….and giving “HIM” the man who betrayed you an out.

    Look, I”m not insensitive and I have been cheated on….but continuing to blame
    the other women is BULL…..If he didn’t want to leave, he wouldn’t have. And, if
    the marriage was so good, he would have tapped that (Keys) and came back home
    like millions have before and will do after.

    I like Keys music and there was a time when being separated meant “hands off”
    until the divorce..but that time is LONG gone. And, in hollyweird…come on
    I wish the best for Mashonda…but if you aren’t blaming your man; than stop whining
    and blaming a person who owes you nothing….NO THING

  • http://dee2503 Dee

    I love AK, I think she is great one of the hottest chicks in the industry. I’m a fan and will remain a fan of hers. Wat she did or does in her personal life is her business, I actually thought she was gay and I wouldve of turned gay if she wouldve kicked it this way..lol! Anyways my only problem with this issue, is y Swiss??? He is so ugly and skinny, she shouldve gone for a hotter dude!!!

  • Rosemary

    First I would like to say I’ve been were Mashonda been, so I feel her pain. Only thing there were no kids involved, thank god! I no longer have any respect for Alicia Keys. I feel the same way how could you make a sound like Superwoman and than become a home wreaker. You do not mess with married men did your mama ever tell you that. I hope she at least let him have a relationship with his son and step back and let them raise their child to the best of their abilities. I feel if A. Keys is going to be in Swizz Beatz life she needs to sit and have a talk with Mashonda because 9 out of 10 their son might have to spend some time around A. Keys. Mashonda needs to see where her head is at. What goes around comes back around A. Keys!!! If he left his wife for you what makes you think your so special that he will not do the same to you?

  • http://gossiponthis.com/2009/09/28/mashonda-swizz-beatzs-future-ex-wife-confronts-alicia-keys-on-twitter/ Celia S

    Mashonda is scorned but rightfully so. She just sold out to pressure though. If it weren’t AK it would have been another woman. AK should’ve waited to start a relationship with him until the divorce papers were filed – as a committment is just that until it has been dissolved. It would’ve also showed that she is a woman of class and respect. SB is a man taking the opportunity that he is given. The baby, though, is important and unlike Mashonda has reported – a toddler has no idea about feeling “scared” or fearful of his father just because he doesn’t sleep with or like his mommy anymore. If Mashonda really wants to raise her child, then close your mouth, go to court and settle and keep the baby out of your arguments and tweets. One day he will read too. Act like a lady and be his mother, first. It will teach SB how to act like a man (if he isn’t already and you are just mad) and give your son a father to look up to. Again, keep the child out of the discussion and the drama and let his father be his father – even if he doesn’t want you. He left you, not his child.

  • Mahagony Brown

    What (AK) need to know is that there’s more than one (AK) out there in the world so what comes around goes around and to SB the grass isn’t always greener on the other side one day when it’s too late they both will see the truth after all the fun and games and excitement are all over

  • ameerah bint kennel

    EVERYONE IS BLAMIING ALICIA KEYES BUT NONW IS SAYING ANYTHING ABOUT SWIZZ BEATZ….. IT TAKES TO MAKE A MARRIAGE GO SOUR AND FOR A AFFAIR TO HAPPEN. YES MY HEART GOES OUT TO MASHANDA BUT IN THE SENSE HOW DO WE KNOW WHAT EXACTLY WAS GOING ON IN THE HOOUSEHOLD BEFORE HAND…..

  • rae rae

    AK forget what everyone has to say. Don’t leave your your man, your his SUPERWOMAN!!!!!!!!!!. Make good of your decision.

  • MZ.COLLIN7189

    I FEEL THAT AK IS A VERY DISRESPECTFUL HOE . SHE SHOULD HAVE FOUND HER OWN MAN. COME ON NOW THIS IS ALICIA KEYS WERE TALKING BOUT!!!!! SHE COULD’VE FOUND ANY MAN ON THE FACE OF DA EARTH SHE WANT BUT SHE CHOOSE TO GO BEHIND THIS LADIES BACK AND MESS WITH A MARRIED MAN. SO FOR THAT SHE IS A HOME RECKING HOE. AND ALL THOSE WHO R TRYING 2 DEFEND HER YA’LL NASTY AND DISRESPECTFUL JUST LIKE SHE IS. WHAT IF IT WAS YOUR MAN WOULD U B COOL WITH IT THEN? JUST BCAUSE SHE IS AK DOSEN’T GIVE HER THE RIGHT 2 LAY DOWN WITH A MARRIED MAN AND RUIN A CHILDS HAPPY HOME……….MASHONDA HOLD YA HEAD UP GOD LOOKIN OUT 4 U AND YOUR SON. BESIDE HE UGLY ANYWAY EVEN U COULD HAVE DONE BETTER AND NO THAT WHAT GOSE AROUND COMES AROUND LIKE SHE SAID KARAMA IS VERY UGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!! P.S. TELL BEYONCE 2 WATCH OUT FOR JAY-Z AROUND THIS HOME RECKER!!!!!!!!!

  • elisa

    i think AK is a great singer and this mashonda is just mad. stop goin after the woman and go after the man. i have been through it to but hey i moved on married again and have a happy family. also leave the kid out of it like someone said on here one day he will be able to read and he might get angry with u. i say just move on and start a new life.

  • AK IS STANK

    AK, is DEAD WRONG!!!!! NO WAY AROUND IT, SBis just as WRONG!!!! The both of you will see in due to , I use to like this brod, I’m glad the truth is finnal,y out about this NASTY TRICK . She will never get another dime of my money , oh by the way FONKY STANK ASS AK, I’ve started a boy cot out here in TEXAS, So when YOUR SALES BEGAN TO DROP IN THE SOUTH , DONT GET MAD LOOK AT THAT UNTRUTHFUL, LYING ASS TRIPHLIN ASS FACE OF YOURS. AND ADMIT HOW VERY FUCKED UP U ARE. WE WILL NO LONGER SUPPOURT YOU , EVERYTHING YOU STOOD FOR AND SANG ABOUT AND TALKED ABOUT WAS ALL A FUCKING LIE !!!!! U HAVE LET EVERYONE DOWN , INCLUDING YOUR DAMN SELF U STUPID FUCKING BITCH !!!!!!

  • angie

    wow… what a super women. i always love A. Keys but now i have to think twice about her. what type of women are you breaking up marriages. is a different story if she didn’t know but in this situation she is to blame. guys will always be guys they will say anything to get that. i guess if worked for her. shame on you a. Keys

  • tc1234

    Miss Keys is a rude BITCH! I wish and speak nothing but bad things on her life! I wish Mr. Beatz does the same thing to her with a groupie. She does not realize the pain a women endures when a husband cheats. What God put together let no man break. I promise that I will never buy any cd from Miss Keys again. I have no respect for her as a women!

  • nickey

    well i have always love ak an her music,but now i think twice about her breaking up a family like that an now she is going to have a baby for swizz beatz i feel it for the ex wife, if it was me i don’t know wat i would do to her maybe they would have to lock me the fuck up cause i because would beat the fuck out of her like that.has a black woman i’m mad as hell!!!

  • http://www.google.com firereese

    Ak played a big part in messing up that marriage SB will see the grass is not greener on the other side and yes SB was the one who took the vows so the responsibility of fixing the marriage was on him.

  • http://www.google.com firereese

    @elisa:
    wht could mashonda son get mad @ her about his dad is the one who cheated on his mom and left for another women. I do think she should move on but she doing nothing wrong she has ever right to put it out there i hope she see AK in the street and kick her ass. when mashonda asked AK about the affair she lied that tells u wht kind of person she and sb our. I will no longer support AK or SB.

  • Swatso

    I think people need to start blaming the man. He knew what he was doing with both of these women. Men have been doing this $h!t for years and no one, NO ONE ever puts their foot in their a$$ like they do the women. Someone need to cut his D!@K off and throw that $h!t in the Hudson-Lorena Bobbit style. Sorry you had to go through that mess Mashonda–keep your head up girl. Alicia, I know you human and all, but I thought you were raised better!!! Swiss, don’t ever come around me and I got a knife in my hand…let’s just say hot dogs won’t be the only thing cooking for Memorial day!!!

  • jones

    I think alicia was desperate, why break up a marriage??? She could have had any man she wanted but she chose a married man. It shows she has no respect for herself or anyone else, (i personnaslly will never by any of her music). I am a married woman and i could just imagine how his wife felt. On top of that she looks 100% better than alicia!!!! If it wasn’t her it would have been someone else. But believe this SHE AND HIM WILL GET IT BACK TEN FOLD!!!!! WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!!!!! She is very bold with it (so is he). Neither one gave a damn!!!!!

  • t.flow

    I haven’t been to intune with what’s going on… Seperation is somewhat of the same as divorcing… But if they were to be living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed then yeah shame on AK… I see no problem with a woman that chases a unmarried man but a married man is disrespect, he committed to someone a understanding that all problems are subject to being workable. But AK but herself in the mix and did what any lame would do, take what they want besides that she seems like the type of person that would have no regards for others.. She doesn’t believe what she sings, and if u listen to the lyrics of her new song I feel like she’s trying to justify their “love” I will always listen to good music but u as a person is not worth listening to if ur not singing… What goes around sooner or later comes around, and what I’ve notice is when dudes don’t have the other girl to keep the spice and secret game from that they get tired of the new girl and misses the old one… I see jealousy in AK’4 future… Kind of like brad and Angelina

  • Stacy

    You handled this situation as a woman, and I have lost all respet for Alicia Keys. If he is married leave the man alone He can only be one womans husband at a time.

  • geegee

    Alicia Keys should be ashame….

  • Tiffany

    Alicia Keys is wrong. Yea Swizz Beatz is to blame as well but so is Alicia Keys. I was in this exact situation and I know exactly how it feels. Alicia should have waited until the divorce was final and all I can say is I am a strong believer in karma. As for the ppl who are saying Mashonda is just blaming Alicia then shame on you because you don’t know what she said to Swizz. I been in the situation so I am pretty sure she confronted him as well but they were married they were one and Alicia knew and she fail to care. I don’t care if they were separated or whatever they still were married. Yeah I like a few of Alicia songs but just because someone may sing about something doesn’t mean they live by there words in there songs. I have no respect for Alicia or other woman who do they same and I feel unless you walked in Mashonda’s shoes like I have you will never have the slightest clue of how it is or how it feels.

  • KJ

    I was a fan of Alicia’s but I can’t say that I am any longer. It’s hard not to believe what Swizz Beats wife is saying because the fact of the matter is 1) he IS still married and 2) AK IS pregnant by him. You don’t accidently get married by another womans husband. If he was bold enough to do it to his wife he will be bold enough to do the same thing to Alicia. This Game is old school and AK should’ve known better than that. What you put out in the Universe will surely come back to you! I wish both ladies the best.

  • grace

    I dont like AK anymore I think this was very disreputable on her part . havin been on both sides of this stick since I have gotten older I have learned to value the sanctity of marriage and believe that no good will come out of love born of forbidden friut. Tainted pure and simple only time will prove this though so like TUPAC says Keep your head up.

  • Sharipha

    Kudos to Mashonda for being an adult about this situation. I don’t think women realize that just like the man cheated on his wife with you, it could come back to bite you in the butt. Respect is something we as people have to learn to give in order to receive. Sometimes what we want should be worth waiting for if it means that much to us.

  • pretty

    DAMN! I FEEL WHAT I FEEL WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH, I’VE BEEN THROUGH IT ALSO. ALL I CAN SAY IS THEY WILL GET WHAT THEY DESERVE. AND ADVISE BEATZ TO START PAYING HIS BILLS, SO HE DON’T RECEIVE ANYMORE CALLS ABOUT UNPAID BILLS!!!

  • til-skee

    AK is wrong for what she did to Shonda’s family and if the shoe was on the other foot she would feel the same way. Mashonda is not wrong for blaming her. She is a home wreker who has no respect herself. She knew this would make her look bad and she did it anyway so that just shows how desperate she is. She is a very pretty woman and she can sing. Why did she have to go after another womans man. She must not be very smart or she would have got a man on her own. Im not judging her I’m just telling the truth. I look at her different now I know what type of woman she is. I still remember when she first came out how every one was saying she use to be a dike in highschool and they had pictures of her being close with women like they were men. So this dosnt surprise me at all, but we cant put the blame on just (AK) its her mothers fault also for not raising her the right way. True she’s famous but, Gog dosnt’ care about that he looks at what you do and how you treat people.

  • YoungBlackWoman

    Wow…This is something else. I guess no one can really take sides since there are so many versions to this story. I feel the ex-wife’s pain. I’ve always admired Alicia Keys (the celebrity), and though we can’t help who we love, we got to respect this bond called MARRIAGE. Whether the couple’s having issues or not, they are bonded by the spirit of God. Being that she dated this guy even before he got divorced means she contributed at some point to the destruction of his marriage, and that makes her an adultress. There’s no two ways about it. The least she could have done was hold her end till he was divorced…men will always be men, the mantle is with us women to have respect for ourselves and each other. How can you ever make it right with God when you helped in destroying a bond that he blessed? Hmmm

  • Charity

    A.K. and S.B are wrong, they should be blamed.

  • http://www.42Ladyladiesman.co.za Paseka Lawrance Radebe

    hi! i have found this man x wife so why cant they stay together and rise their on baby and what is the hottesst gossips that were hard about and we have not seen you are in the serious trouble boy friend Swizz Beats, if you are not care full about me am angry and sorry Alicia about whatishappening but what is happening to you from husband PasekaR@webmail.co.za or what ? i will call you they said i must call you you are the first to know.

  • Ask

    Used to be an A Keys fan, not anymore!

  • Kitti B

    This is the reason I do not hero worship anyone, you have no knowledge of who they really are. I never had a great love for AK’s music to begin with now I know for sure I don’t need to be listening to anything she has to sing about. SB either.

  • I m not ur judge

    Ok…first things first…”He who is w/out sin cast the first stone.” Whether it be cheating, stealing, abusing another or any other harmful or sinful and disrespectful acts, we are not put here on this earth to judge. We are all at fault for something everyday. That being said….They are all at fault INCLUDING MASHONDA!!! Who has been inside their (Swizz n Mashonda’s) home/marriage in the last 5 yrs. to really know how it’s been goin’ down? Maybe they have been greatly lacking in communication and he (SB) felt like it just wasn’t worth it. That doesn’t make it right and I’m not taking any of their sides, I’m just sayin’ look at all sides of this thing. Alicia, on the other hand has violated the sanctity of marriage between a husband and a wife and I hope for her sake she is able to come to terms w/her self as well as her decisions. No one person in this is innocent. I feel for all of them because none of them truly understand that there are gonna be 2 children caught smack in the middle of all of this and that they will learn from examples first. They are all being selfish…even Mashonda, w/the Me me me’s and The I, I, I’s. Even though she brought up the baby…she’s still being selfish too. I’ve been where she’s been more times than I care to count but what I say to that is…take care of self, take care of that baby and just get all your stuff straight through the court. Stop talkin’ about it…lay out custody, child support and visitaion w/judge, make every effort to be a decent woman and accept Alicia as a part of Swizz’s life, differences aside and hope that all ends well. Forgiveness will open up alot of doors for you. Sorry this was long to anyone reading but I just felt like so many people were only looking at one side. Peace n Blessings to all.

  • B

    I feel bad for the kids. Alicia, has lost all my respect. I just have one question, You could have any man you wanted, why choose a married man? Is he that good in bed? I hear you in the song “Ask me Im ready”. Is that song dedicated to him. Both of you will regret this decision and I believe the child will be ok. because he is young but in my case I am still dealing with the affects of divorce with one of my sons and he is now 22. Alicia there is a man right now that I love so dearly and he is married. I had to pray so hard to ask God to take those feelings from me because I know what happened in my marriage. He was strong as well or I think I would have caved in to his sexyness. We are now best friends and we both know if we crossed that line, the friendship we have would be tarnished, I’m glad we never got physical. However, I still have to pray because the good book tells us even if we think it we have already sinned. You better pray real hard b-cause what goes around comes around!

  • belkys

    all i want to know is if SB asked mashond for a divorce or did mashonda ask swizz beats for the divorce???…because if Swizz beats didn’t ask for a divorce then mashonda was suppose to stick it out and fight for her husband…thats just my opinion. but if my husband had an affair im not leaving him for anything…he aint going nowhere! but if he demands a divorce i will have no choice but to divorce him.

  • IHATEYOUALL

    First off let me start by saying I HATE YOU ALL, well most of you….What she does in her personal life is HER business and should not affect what you think of her music. Nobody can take ANYBODY from ANYBODY unless they WANT to leave!! But NO you NON rational, NON logical thinking human beings want to say she took him, and she is such a horrible person for it. SHUT UP you all sound stupid and look even more idiotic for sitting and marinating on this issue. Cause no matter how much you think or talk about it you’re not getting paid or anything and you’re still in the same position you were before. So how about you guys get off the computer and go DO something productive with your lives instead of go in on Alicia Keys and how immoral of a person you think she is. HEY maybe talk about REAL issues like why our country is in such a crap hole and ways we could fix it (but then again you all are stupid, so that maybe be too much for all of you cause im guessing if you put all of your brain power together it wouldn’t even equate to that of a chicken fetuses. And if it wasn’t her, it would have been somebody else.

    And let me reiterate myself one last time NO ONE CAN TAKE A PERSON FROM ANOTHER PERSON IF THEY AREN’T WILLINGLY LEAVING! (he was going to leave her sooner or later).

    Have a nice day all =]

  • Tilly

    SB is a cheater, period! If it hadn’t been AK, it would have definitely been someone else. And why is everyone hating on Alicia, we don’t know what he told her…Men are liars and cheats, and if she’s in love with him, then he didn’t even need to convince her of his story. Love is blind and as much as ya’ll want to sit there and point fingers, we don’t have all the facts here. My boyfriend of 2 years made another woman pregnant, I found out when I went thru his text messages, just as I was recovering from that shock, I found out that this woman had been his “secret” for over 5 years, way before I came into his life even his family knew about her. So when he went over to the girl’s parents to report the pregnancy they asked that he marries her. They are engaged but he lives with me…she has moved in with his mom, he only goes over to visit but always comes home to me. I didn’t know about her, and that’s why i still continue living with him. Sometimes life deals u a low-blow…Now go on and jugde me…

  • kanika

    hold ur head up you and your son will be just fine and remember what does around comes back around so leave her to god he WILL handle this situation.

  • http://www.dwu.ac.pg PKELS

    Mashonda and Akeys should look for ways to get even with the situation they are currently undergoing. It is the moral truth that stealing someone else’s wife/husband is wrong. Currently they both are not even with the situation because the creator of this situation Swizz Beatz has been given a heroic character by both women. They both should leave him and give him his “his nobody” place and go on with their lives. Mashonda live on her life with her son and Akeys to look for another better hansome man than Skinny SB, because there are plenty of men out there who will be willing to marry a beautiful women who had already had a child. IF it happens that way, both Masonda and Akeys will be able to get even with the situation. Moral truth is from God and he is with every being who abides by his truth.

  • Sad Truth

    I love how Mashonda handled this!! She is truly an honorable woman for the intellectual, respectable message she sent to Alicia, and I honor and respect her for that!! The Lord will TRULY BLESS YOU UNCONDITIONALLY with TRUE LOVE and HAPPINESS that ONLY HE CAN GIVE!!! I pray for all the people involved in this issue, because these types of things are happening every day, and it really needs to stop! The Lord is not pleased with us, and that includes me and my sins!!! Alicia & Swizz are wrong, but condemning them will not change the fact that now, they really are married. We must ALL REPENT and turn from our evil ways!! The Lord is faithful and just to forgive us all, even Alicia & Swizz!!! Jesus Loves YOU!!! Lord, Help Us ALL!!! God bless!

  • g77

    Hello out there! Why can’t she be mad at both of them? Just because some cheats doesn’t mean the girlfriend or spouse in this case has a problem or is doing something wrong. Some people cheat because they are just terrible people, duh!

  • MooMOO

    Mashonda, I congratulate you for being the bigger person in a situation that ANY woman can find herself in. The saying ‘what goes around comes around’ gives me great comfort and I hope one day you find a man worthy of you. Quite frankly the whole sordid affair has put me right off AK; a marriage wrecker I never thought she would be. Love and best wishes for the future.x.

  • Teasy

    Dang! Most of you sound real stupid. Alicia keyes is not the homewrecker. That’s Beatz. I agree with NIJOUR. Alicia had no commitment to Mashonda, so she owes her nothing. The reason all of you blame the woman and not the man is because you’ve probably had this happen to you and you took that fool back. It’s easier to blame the woman so you can justify why your taking back a liar and cheater. So grow up, leave Alicia alone she’s human. And you probably wasn’t buying her CD anyway. I’d be surprised with so much bootlegging going on. I still love her, her personal life has nothing to do with me or you.

  • sgtscoops

    The Bible says: A seed that is sowed you shall reap a harvest. Rather a marriage is broken or not it still does not give the right for either spouse to cheat. A marriage is the covenant of God. The man is the head. He’s his wife covering. Beatz pick up at your local bookstore: Understanding The Purpose Of Man!!! By author Myles Munroe… A seed that Beatz and Keys sowed yall 2 are gonna reap a bad harvest… People please read your bibles…. Hollywood dont take marriage serious.

  • sgtscoops

    Mashonda I commend you for leaving it in Gods hand. A seed they sow they gonna reap!
    Continue to stay in the word of God.

  • Angel

    I’m a fan of Alicia keys but I TOTALLY AGREE with Mashonda. I feel for Mashonda and I can’t tell she’s a strong woman and smart one.
    It’s such a shame what Alicia did to this family and I hope that Mashonda will find the strength to survive this.
    God bless.

  • Keepin it Real

    Karma is real…..She will get her’s way harder. She must have forgot how she got him…

  • F’d up

    Ok first off, Mashonda was too damn nice with the tweet. I was thinking the other day about how many celebrities just let their family break apart without doing anything about it. From Angelina HOE lie to Bombshell. This is going to keep on happening until you beat the **** out of the other chick or dude and let them know that they just cant take whats yours and men or women cant just cheat on you just for the heck of it. I would handle a B****es a** and It has nothing to do with the dude thats round 13, 1-12 is about principle and disrespect of me and mines. AK was wrong and so was swiss. And AK is to blame. In the eyesight of God swiss is to blame and so is AK. She destroyed their vows and she didn’t respect them. If she was a woman she wouldve told his *** to go back home. Marriage is a very serious thing. How can she expect someone to respect her marriage to swiss and for him to respect it if she never respected anyone elses? I just found out about their relationship today and am shocked. I mean this right here is ridiculous. And people just accept it. The media plays it up and its a shame. AK would be getting stoned right now right along with swiss in foreign countries. I think people aren’t mentioning Swiss in this because it comes as no surprise. However finding Alicia to be a part of it, really shocks me. I find her to be a hyporcrit for real. I don’t care if a marriage is upside down left side up, no one has the right to impose on it. If it was that bad he would’ve left before AK came along. So she is to blame just as much as he is. Mashonda, keep your head up girl….sometimes god has a way of getting the dirt out of our lives to make space for new and better things. Trust me, you will have the last laugh!

  • Ayna

    First of all
    Mashonda didn’t particularly blame anyone for breaking the marriage, she only blamed Alicia for contributing in it and being disrespectful about it. Mashonda had to deal with a broken family, and most of all the broken bond and trust that her and SB were building during their relationship of many years, while Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz were parading around and becoming official to everyone. Mashonda and her children have every reason to feel abandoned and disrespected, and AK and SB sharing the “amazing news” with everyone just doesn’t seem fair to people who have suffered to give them their selfish happiness.
    I think it’s good what Mashonda did, so people will know the other side of the story. Because now poeple only acknowledge the glamorized story of AK and SB marrying, having a child and being oh so happy together, while Mashonda and the kids are being put aside just because theyre not as famous and adored as the other 2 are.
    It’s true, theyre all just people, so selfish and full of flaws. And maybe theyll never know guilt and responsibility because noones there to chastise them, only fans who will always idolize them.
    Also stop saying Mashonda move on – it’s not easy, she’ll do it in her own time, she’s not hating on Alicia, she’s just trying to set the record straight and finally reach out to her. If you read teh whole thing, you’d know that she’s been trying to talk to her, while AK lied, hid, and ignroed her, and that’s when twitter was introduced – so that AK would finally respond. IMO, AK needs to acknowledge the Mashonda, instead of turning her lovely face to the cameras and pretending like these people whom she ruined don’t matter or don’t exist.
    i respect that Mashonda remained sensible and straight-forward in this. I’d be very heart broken if that ever happened to me

  • lisa

    i think this was totally nasty.after all the songs representing women and what they grow through.Alicia songs are not realistic but she sings what people wanna hear.for the guy u a nasty prik!PREPARE TO B A SINGLE MOM MY DEAR.

  • Sheila 7

    AK was wrong because she knew SB was married when she started messing with him, period. Ofcourse SB was wrong, but I honestly do not see where Mashonda would be wrong. She didnt cheat, she was cheated on. She is obviously trying to get over the situation the best way she can but to see “get over it and move on” especially those that have been through cheatings, is very insensitive. You say that you were cheated on and you moved on right, well how long did it take you to move on? And actually the answer really does not matter because everyone is different, everyone deals with situations differently and everyone has their own healing time and process.

    There is no going around the situation, and to say “SB was going to leave her anyway” is ridiculous. If SB was not happy and going to leave her then so be it but the whole point of their situation is the fact that he and AK did not wait until the divorce was announced or even final before they started their own relationship. The point is that they were still married and if AK and SB were so in love they could have waited until the divorce was final. I believe how AK and SB handled this situation was very teenage like.

    Now that the situation happened i wish nothing but blessings for AK, SB and Mashonda. Its our job to forgive and Gods job to take revenge.

  • Beverly T

    It’s over now and they just need to take the example of Jada and Will Smith. Treat each other now with dignity and respect. If I was Shonda, I would not have put my business out there. No matter what, You never let them see you sweat. Now everyone needs to act like an adult. I have been hurt in thesame way and sometimes it is nothing you can do about it but move on.

  • jungleeyez

    @miss d: man i liked ha music n ha talents but afta readin this i really dont hav respect fa alicia. Everybody always says the otha woman does not owe respect to the woman in the realtionship but THEY DO, as a woman you owe that owe woman. Us woman need to stick togetha and understand and respect eachotha.

  • Ms. Kelly

    I was a very sensitive with the fact, that the woman cause many problems with your marriage and am very upset at the fact that people think that they can come into ur life and do what the hell they wanna do. but guess what GOD is still in control and i promise she will get hers TRUST IN GOD LET GO AND LET GOD LOVE YOU stay sweet

  • devils advocate

    I hope all of you saying that you arent ever going to buy anything of AK also commits to not purchasing anything that Swizz Beatz touches either. She may have been the other woman, but she sure as hell didnt twist his arm, it was both of them, not just her.

  • keysha

    I WAS A HUGE FAN OF ALICIA KEYS…..AND SWIZZ BEATZ…BUT NOW..NOT DIGGIN EM AT ALL….MASHONDA…IM A MARRIED WOMAN AND I FEEL WHERE YOUR COMIN FROM! BUT I AM A FIRM BELIEVER..WHAT YOU DO COMEZ BACK 7 FOLDS…DONT WORRY SHONDA..SWIZZ AND ALICIA KEYS WILL FEEL DA 7 FOLDZ….AND AUTOMATICALLY THINK OF YOU MOMMA…KEEP YOUR HEAD UP…SAY NO MORE ABOUT DIS SITUATION..PUT IT TO BED..AND IN GODS HANDS!

  • barbie

    waw, AK is such a pretty woman to be so trashy. SHE”S NOT A LADY WITH CLASS!!! i wish her and SB the best of luck, ut i really thought that AK was smarter than that. the DOG traits that SB has will only take time before they appear again. and guess what, now AK ill have to endure the same pain that she cause to Mashonda.

  • unque

    Nobody,was stolen. The man simply left, lost interest. You simply don’t stay in a marriage because of the kids. Now maybe he will be the best dad 4 his sons. Yeah he should have done it differently, divorced his wife first, before movin on. When he knew he had fallin 4 ms keys. good luck to swizz beatz and A. Keys. To Ms Mashonda God’s grace be with you I know you will be okay and a better woman and person for this trail in your life. It’s clear u loved him. My prayers are with all of you.

  • dedra

    dang thats messed up!! Um tired of these guys cheating they know whats right and whats wrong! look at that BS. And these female doing thier dirt too! when will it end?

  • sable

    one does not stay in a relationship when he or she is not happy. love i sthe matter of the heart. it does not matter married or in a strong relationship if one feel it is not working quit becos u are hurting yourself. basically something was not working that is why he left. what is the big deal move on mama. think about your child here that is his father. you guys just need understanding on how to raised the child period. you are beautiful it is not the end of the road you got all the package any guy want. i know how u feel mama move on. u get a better guy out there for u. u do not need to put your sweat out here like tis u be good. god loves u

  • Africka Kenyatta

    Alicia Keys is a WHORE!!! and Fantasia is right she only got away with it because she is light skinned. She is filthy! Why is she getting well wishes and Fantasia’s name got smeared???? Both of them are dirt but it makes you wonder???

  • Janet pleasant

    only god can judge her.

  • Lucas

    ESSA musica e boa: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aP_amj10eVw&feature=related

    David maio – I’ll Be Watching You

  • Nico

    I hate to say it, but if he did it once, he will definitely do it again. So watch out Alicia.

  • Princess B. K.

    U just told them the real deal. They should go do something else with their boring lives and stop blaming AK. The man wanted to live or else he would have gone back to his wief. Period!!!!!!!!!

  • BrandonKanee#1Fan

    @AK IS STANK: I COULDNT AGREE MORE . . .!

  • Mumahs

    Ak an sb are grown I dont think their business is for anyone else to put on blast. If it they would have told Mashonda what was going on it would have got ugly. We are in 2011 an things happen people move on an once they leave you cant decide who is ok for them to be with. An hating after the fact they left you is not looking good for any womn who has been cheated on. So on that note he cheatedc get over it he has moved on putting the business on blast is embarrassing all three involved mainly Mashonda cuz she is left with nothing an still tweeting . There is nothing to say its over. Stop tripping it happens.

  • Shetandra Jones

    I like Alicia Keys but I am very disappointed that she will do that. I see her in a new eyesight now. I am married so I understand how Mashonda feel. Five years is a long time. I hate to see people just throw a long marriage away.

  • Ayah Dawood

    It is hard to judge a situation sitting from here, and honestly who are we to judge? However I will say, from this tweet Mashonda sounds so classy and mature. I am amazed at her restraint. I wanna be her friend.

  • Mazz

    I feel sorry for this woman Mashonda.
    Alicia Keys and Swiss Beats I am so ashamed of the two of you. Especially Alicia Keys.
    To me Alicia Keys was classy and represented what a woman should be today, strong, successful.
    I have changed my view on Alicia. I think she’s a man stealing, break up a happy home bitch, and i know what many people would say on here, “leave em alone”….let me tell you people, step into the shoes of Mashonda’s and see how it feels. Do you want heartbreak, kids without a father. B damned if u do.
    Alicia Keys what sort of role model are you to young women?, sleep with a married man its all good..that’s the message your sending out..break up a happy home(family…and go and have a flashy wedding, like that’s gonna fix the problem.
    Alicia Keys you disappoint me, you should be disappointed in yourself..How could you. Why not go out and get a single man, and why act like your a strong(super woman) when u were so weak as to not be upfront with Mashonda.
    You lied..shame on you.

  • Im just sayin

    Whats funny is that,the majority of you guys are talking about Mashonda being the bigger person… HOW IS PUBLICALLY POSTING THIS THE ACT OF BEING THE BIGGER PERSON? Then she goes on about how its just for AK And such and such… -_- Really…. What she wanted was for everyone to do what it is,youre doing now…. Bashing AK…. Im not nor have I ever been the 4 walls in their home but come on something was happening…. Who knows how Mashonda said to AK and how she said i when she clames,of reaching out to her…..

  • Bella

    Got a few words for you Alicia and you sang them yourself “what goes up must come down!”

    End of discussion haha! Don’t worry mashonda, every one will reap what they sow! Maybe not right now, tomorrow or this week.. But someday someday :-)!

  • mimi

    im a big fan of AK but wat she did is totally wrong i did not expected from her i mean she’s beautiful and a role modal she made me lose all the respect i had for her…and for shonda you should not be blaming AK only blame your husband also he has a hand in it..shonda you are beautiful you’ll find another man even a better one just forgive AK and SB and like you said leave it all to almighty God…Ak im still your fan i love your music but i thought you would have dignity>>>

  • Fatana

    I will still love Alicia Keys music because she’s a great artist. I don’t expect anything more from a great artist but great music. Alicia Keys is human. All i can say is that i feel for you Mashonda. But God always take something out your life so he can give you something better. A man that can cheat then leave you, is not a man meant for you at all. Now you have a beautiful son and a whole lot of money. God is trully good. Enjoy while your still young!

  • Fatana

    @Africka Kenyatta: hay this has nothing to do with the color of someone’s skin! fantasia got smeared because the man had no respect for her. The man she was cheating with did not trully want her. Alicia Keys got that man to marry her! he had lots of respect for her! thats the difference

  • maria

    Alicia keys is one of my best artists, i liked her personality , i never knew she will do such a thing, i think she ddnt think twice for her decision, if she did let me just say she is very evil infact she even knew that swizz is a married man…. mmhhm this is soo owful, i feel sory to mashonda and her son, God may be with them.

  • Jrock

    They say love is blind… well so is AK cuz Swiss is mad goofy.. no lie talented though. i wish the best to his exwife… Keep ya head up and lead by example

    I care very little for any artist’s personal life. They are not what they seem in their videos… it’s a business people… they are as confused, and insecure and dramatic as any other person.
    AK i don’t blame you for doing you.. but shame on you for pretending to be her friend then stabbing her in the back and having no backbone to face the music… that’s some bitch ass shit. I hope karma doesn’t serve you a cold one… remix!!!!!!!!!

    That kind of shit says alot about the kind of person you really are…. Mad Grimmy lady. you gets no props!

  • erica

    I understand were u are coming from mashonda u deserve an apology from her she is a back stabbing home recker and i was never in to her music. Mashonda u don’t need him and what he did to u he will do to her because he is a man!!! @kA (a dog)…

  • http:/gossiponthis.com DivaVanette

    It is sad to say the lease when someone comes on tv and acts as if she is so much for mankind and womankind and yet is so deceiving. All the little speeches and so forth. WOW. Well I am not surprised and yes a person can interfer with someone relationship until they destroy it. Don’t think for that it cannot happen. I don’t think it has that much to do with looks because his ex is beautiful.If anything all it probably was to try and help his career (never heard of him, his ex yes, him no) But what Alicia and SB must remember is what goes around come around and since Alicia is so deep maybe she will be remember these paraphased words from the word. BE NOT DECIEVED WHATSOEVER A MAN SOWTH, SO SHALL HE REAP!!! THE BE NOT DECEIVED MEANS TRUST HIM HE WILL COME TO PASS.

  • Lotta

    Love! A lot of people on here are looking at this from one angle. And let me not forget to mention that we don’t dictate what comes back on someone thats why it’s called a personal relationship with God. We love to tell someone, o he did me wrong, he cheated she did this or that… And the same thing will come back on them… So we hope?!? Right!!! Lol!! What I’m getting at is it all about the situation. I don’t blame either female both are right! Fight for what you believe in. And if you’re at peace with your decision then be at peace. I respect both women.

  • Alena

    I can tell you as a Christian minister that what Alicia Keys did is not God’s will. God calls it adultery, and she’s broken one of the ten commandments and doesn’t care. They were not made to be broken. But unfortunately, what goes around comes around. It sounds like you had a nice little family but I guess your husband couldn’t walk away from that offer. It’s too bad but it says you deserve someone much better. He is weak. If it weren’t her, it could have been someone else. You will be better off without him because he doesn’t understand the sacredness of marriage and that it’s a lifetime committment and a covenant with God. He didn’t take that seriously. You deserve someone much better. Alica Keys has also taken it lightly and she has not cared what God thinks about her behavior or your marriage. I pity her. But someone will leave her when she’s happiest. It’s a spiritual law and it’s always in operation. You are a truly quality person to not loose your cool but try to work throught this in a civilized way. I say your ex has lost a great woman and found an adulterer and a person who has no fear of God. So you’re the one who made out in the deal. Now you can live a life with someone that will not betray you and that can be trusted. Trust God for it. He’ll see that it comes for you. You deserve very much and I know it will happen for you. May God bless you in grand proportions!!!

  • UmNotimportant

    First off she said she blamed niether of em.if a chick come into yo face n shake hands wit u …dats point blank disrespect no regards to you or your child,but swizz is more to blame cause he might end up doin alicia the same way< I WILL DIE LAUGHIN IF HE DO…alicia was my fave everything like i couldnt believe she was fowl like dat…swizz ugly asx pf showtime cancled when shonda take half which she need to do…they say men think wit they dick…i wonder what alicia was thinkin bout

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