Mashonda (Swizz Beatz’s Future Ex Wife) Confronts Alicia Keys on Twitter

Author: Staff | Date: September 28th 2009 | Views: 5,262

Looks like the issues surrounding this “love triangle” between Swizz Beatz, his soon-to-be ex wife (and mother of his child) Mashonda and his new woman, Alicia Keys, have reared their ugly head again! Though Beatz and Keys (that sounds funny together, haha!) have yet to publicly announce that they’re knocking boots, anybody who follows either of the two know what’s going down behind closed doors. They’re always at events together, send mushy messages to each other on Twitter and have even been spotted by the paparazzi enjoying an intimate evening.

Well now Mashonda’s fed up with the whole situation and has decided to put A. Keys on front street for allegedly assisting in the failure of her 5-year marriage. Here’s a message she sent to Alicia the other day on Twitter.

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

Swizz and Mashonda got married in 2004 and have a 2 year old son (born in Jan. 2007). They divorced in April 2009 but the legalities of the settlement haven’t been straightened out just yet, even though Swizz and Alicia have been getting very comfortable with each other recently.

Filed: Baby Mama Drama, Divorce Court | Tags: Alicia Keys, Mashonda, Swizz Beatz

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8 COMMENTS

Lydia

September 29, 2009 at 6:51 PM

irespect alicia keys as an artist but after reading this make me think twice of whom she really is.
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miss d

September 29, 2009 at 11:26 PM

I always liked AK and her music, but now, I’m looking at her in a different way, I would never purchase any of her music, some women, think because a man looks at them and tells them that their wife or girlfriend don’t understand is the oldest game in the book. what goes around comes back. If he cheated with you on his wife, he will definately do the same to you. Oh maybe you feel like you are different, so did the woman that stole my boyfriend, but guess what, he’s doing to her what he did to me. its all game, when will women wake up. A man can only do what we allow them to do. When you miss with another women’s husband, you have to deal with God.
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sherry

October 1, 2009 at 2:57 AM

It does not impress me at all that she (AK) is an artist. She is a human. She breaths just like you and I. I have lost all respect for her. I know alot of people will probably say, they will no longer be a fan. I know I want. I am a married woman. It has nothing to do with being married. That’s what wrong with the world now. People are not wright. Bet just gave her The Humanitarian Award. What a Joke!
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Faith

October 9, 2009 at 4:12 AM

I love Alicia Keys and her music, and I would normally say that a woman should be mad at the man and not the other woman….but the other woman is to blame when they know about you, and know that the man is married, and knows the wife, and knows about the child. I think that is sad. The Alicia Keys that is so expressive, positive, caring, and empowering in her songs and in her words would have no parts of this. I understand you can’t help who you fall in love with….but you can avoid being a home wrecker…even if the marriage was broken…there should have been more respect for the wife and child, and Alicia should have had more self respect. It’s not right to be with a married man…..hell I would have thought that even if AK was in love she would have waited until Beatz relationship was dissolved before carrying on in this foolishness. I wish the best to Mashonda and her son…may you both be blessed….and I hope everything works well for everyone….and I will still be an AK fan…because she has a lot of talent…I am not sure that some ot the songs will be as believable though…and that’s just on the real
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bilel

October 10, 2009 at 7:30 AM

What is the exactly name of his cap ? i love this cap … i’m french and i’m sorry for my english .
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Nat

October 20, 2009 at 8:32 PM

I think that AK should have been woman enough to tell SB to get a divorce first.
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A REAL LADY

October 21, 2009 at 9:31 PM

I am very dissappointed with Alicia Keys. I lost all respect for her, and I have stopped listening to her music. I did like the song “Best I ever had” by Swiss, however; I will not listen to that either.

How dare Alicia to break up someone’s home. She does not deserve to be called a LADY. I can’t believe she has that much “low” self esteem, to do something like that.

You would think Alicia could get a single man, as attractive as she is…however, she can’t…LOL

God will deal with you both. I hope Shonda, sue the heck out of you both…If she was smart she WOULD…..What goes around comes around…

Shonda old you head up, you are BEAUTIFUL!!!! God is in control!!!

A REAL LADY, that can get a MAN….not someone else’s….
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Nijour

November 6, 2009 at 1:16 AM

Let’s be real…and go back to Mashonda’s statement…Why aren’t you blaming “him”.
Keys did not violate any vows to Mashonda..Her husband DID, if it is true. So, if you
are not blaming the women then stop going around the backdoor and blaming her
anyway….and giving “HIM” the man who betrayed you an out.

Look, I”m not insensitive and I have been cheated on….but continuing to blame
the other women is BULL…..If he didn’t want to leave, he wouldn’t have. And, if
the marriage was so good, he would have tapped that (Keys) and came back home
like millions have before and will do after.

I like Keys music and there was a time when being separated meant “hands off”
until the divorce..but that time is LONG gone. And, in hollyweird…come on
I wish the best for Mashonda…but if you aren’t blaming your man; than stop whining
and blaming a person who owes you nothing….NO THING
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